Families impacted by mass stabbings at JSCN find support at Traditional Health gathering

Acknowledging the anniversary of the attacks is approaching, Joyce admitted she feels nervous.

“I know it’s gonna be a tear jerker and it’s going to bring a lot of emotions because it was a very difficult day,” she said.

Earl’s daughter Deborah Burns described the support this week as initially very overwhelming but quickly added she found joy and comfort in knowing First Nations from across the province, FSIN, PAGC and the community’s own Chief and council were out to support the families. She also noted cultural teachings have helped with her own mental health.

“I’ve gotten back into ribbon skirt making, beading, and making my kids own regalia for pow wows,” she explained.

Noting her father’s love for pow wows and sweat lodge ceremonies, Deborah said she has not been to one since her father’s passing, fearing the triggers it may cause. And looking ahead to the anniversary, the emotions have been tough to hide.

“There’s days where it’s triggering because I remember what we were doing on this exact day and we were with him,” she said.

Earl Burns was killed trying to protect his family. (Submitted photo/Aries Mya Burns – grandaughter to Earl Burns.)

Moving forward, Deborah explained the family has planned a special monument in honour of her father.

Vanessa Burns is also one of Earl’s daughters and the former parter of Myles Sanderson.

“I’ve just been avoiding a lot of things, barely getting out there but it’s actually nice to get out and see the support from people I don’t even recognize,” she said.

With respect to her own healing journey and years of abuse she suffered at the hands of Sanderson, Vanessa said her own path is really only starting.

“I barely sleep some nights,” she explained. “Sometimes I just shut down and isolate myself”

Vanessa also acknowledged she thinks about Myles every day.

“Like why did he do this,” she said.

Mental health supports

As part of this week’s events, a number of special sessions have been held and a mental health workers from various corners of the province have been available to provide counseling and supports. Nicole Ouelette from Red Pheasant First Nation was among them and noted that based on her discussions with people, the events of Sept. 4 are still very raw and a lot of processing still has to happen.

“They are still reliving a lot of that day and how it affected their families,” she explained.

Laverne Laliberte, also from Red Pheasant, said simply providing and offering services is not enough, and they have to meet people where they are at.

“Clearly from providing the services we have this week, we can say that a lot of people have not dealt with last year’s tragedy and maybe because they are not yet ready,” she said.

A young girl perfects her beading skills. (Nigel Maxwell/ paNOW Staff)

Janice Brittain has been teaching another form of mental health support, through beading. Youth, as well as elders and leadership have all come to either learn the skill and hone their existing skills. Brittan noted one case where a young girl opened up to her about her feelings.

“She had said it was scary the time it took place, she said everybody was running, all you heard was screaming and crying. She said sometimes i still think of it and I can’t watch scary movies,” she said.

Brittain said she encouraged the girl to use beading to think about other things, but also reminded the girl not to listen to people who tell her to forget what happened because you can’t.

Leadership

Robert Head, one of three Chiefs at James Smith Cree Nation, thanked the FSIN executive for the health gathering and acknowledged the community is still reeling from last year’s stabbing rampage.

“The community has a long way to go in terms of everyone feeling a love of life again. You know there’s a lot of heaviness within the community,” he explained

Reflecting back on the events of Sept. 4, Head recalled feelings of chaos, loss, pain and sadness. He also recalled how multiple agencies came together to support one another and how they created an emergency command centre.

“That was a very tough few days because we had searchers, we had fake sightings and we had all kinds of people that were scared,” he said.

Head also acknowledged the efforts of PAGC Grand Chief Brian Hardlotte who he said was there everyday for two weeks.

“He arrived at 8am every morning and he was the first one on the emergency command centre meeting and he did such a great job for us to bringing resources,” he said.

JSCN Chief Robert Head. (Nigel Maxwell/ paNOW Staff)

Head also acknowledged the support and prayers the community received from all over Canada, as well as the world.

“And that helped us so much, because it helped us keep going every day.”

Looking ahead to the Sept 4 anniversary, Head explained the community’s pow wow will take place during the long weekend and will include presentations and tributes to the victims. Planning is still ongoing for an event on Sept. 4.

FSIN Vice-Chief Dutch Lerat was also present on Thursday and explained that while the federation helped facilitate the annual gathering, it’s the community that’s responsible for the various supports.

Noting the presences of various ceremonial lodges on the grounds this week, Lerat acknowledged it will take a while before the pain goes away. But he also re-affirmed the FSIN’s commitment to help the community.

“And that’s the objective of the federation, to ensure that continues and moves forward,” he said.

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by Nigel Maxwell

Families impacted by mass stabbings at JSCN find support at Traditional Health gathering

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